Do I sound like a cliche?

I do not care if I am a cliche, I am who I am, and if anybody does not like it, then tough dammit, I'm not here to please anybody. Well the other day my sis and I were talking, and she said that I am a cliche, and I had not thought about it before, but am I a gay cliche? She said it's because I dance Ballet, Ballroom, and Hip Hop( Ballroom for four years, Ballet and Hip Hop for seven) also because I love Lady G. Then I asked her to quantify it a bit more, than she also mentioned how obsessed with outward appearance I am, that I religiously go to the gym, get my teeth bleached, and that I am obsessed with world cultures, she said the fact that I am attempting (so far it's been successful) to learn Latin, Italian, French, Romanian, German, Dutch, Swedish, and Russian. What I do is i spend fifteen minutes a day on each language. Anyhow, she said that all these qualities make me a cliche gay, she also says that playing the piano, guitar, and singing makes me a cliche gay as well........ Thoughts?